Loosely based on a True Story

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jrFE5EKq2C4&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Side Chicks

Now the new thing is to show the side chick as the one he loves. Side chicks be winning? TV paints the picture that the man is stuck with his wife, a wife that he chose. Yet, hopelessly in love with the side chick ie Fitz & Olivia (Scandal) Mary Jane & Andre (Being Mary Jane). Now, I'm all for good drama because although it took me a while to jump on the gladiator bandwagon... I'm on it now! But the problem is, some women may take that as reality. A lot of women settling to be a side chick cuz they feel like the man really loves them but is just stuck in his current situation. He's not stuck, he chose to be with his wife. For whatever reason he chose her and decided to make her his wife. It's an honor to be someone's wife. So I'm not dissing the shows because I think they are good. I just want to set the record straight that this black chick wants to be more than a side piece!

Just one of them days...

Sometimes you just don't want to be bothered. It's nothing wrong with that. Overall, I'd describe myself as a positive person, but I'm not always positive. If you're honest with yourself you can say 

the same. It's nothing wrong with having those down days. Look at the weather, it's not always sunny. Sometimes it rains, and who doesn't like a rainy day every once in awhile? Plus, the rain makes you really appreciate a beautiful sunny day!!!

Happy New Year!!! 2014

Last year, I wrote a diary entry that said at 25 I will be bold and take risks. At the time, I didn't have anything specific in mind, I just knew I didn't want to limit myself. Eventually, I ended up quitting two decent jobs and moved to New York with with no job. 

Now, I have a job, closely related to what I have a degree in and I've adjusted pretty well to public transportation. I'm not saying I've  ARRIVED and I still have my days where I'm like what was I thinking?... but I'm learning we have choices in everything we do. If I'm unhappy about something I can change it. Am I ready to go back to South Carolina? Hhhhhheeeee...*clears throat* no! I do miss the weather though. Today the weather forecaster said it's gonna be brutally cold and the low will be below zero. How do you dress in below zero weather? I digress, shoot I don't even know what I was saying. Welp, guess this is a good place to end. Happy New Year!!!!